No-Fault Divorce

No-fault divorce is available in all 50 states and is the most common type of divorce today. Key characteristics:

  • Neither spouse has to prove the other did something wrong
  • Grounds typically include "irreconcilable differences" or "irretrievable breakdown"
  • Generally faster and less contentious than fault-based divorce
  • Often requires a separation period before filing

Pure No-Fault States: Some states (like California and Florida) only offer no-fault divorce, while others allow both no-fault and fault-based options.

Fault-Based Divorce

In fault-based divorce, one spouse alleges specific wrongdoing by the other. Common fault grounds include:

  • Adultery
  • Cruelty or abuse
  • Abandonment or desertion
  • Imprisonment
  • Habitual drunkenness or drug addiction
  • Mental illness or incapacity

Proving fault may affect property division or alimony in some states, but also requires more evidence and typically a longer court process.

Uncontested Divorce

An uncontested divorce occurs when both spouses agree on all major issues:

  • Division of property and debts
  • Child custody and visitation
  • Child support
  • Spousal support (alimony)

Advantages:

  • Faster resolution (weeks to months)
  • Lower costs (often no trial needed)
  • Less emotional stress
  • More privacy (less public court proceedings)
  • Greater control over outcomes

Contested Divorce

A contested divorce occurs when spouses cannot agree on one or more issues. The court must resolve disputed matters. Characteristics:

  • Requires more extensive court involvement
  • May involve discovery, depositions, and expert witnesses
  • Typically takes longer (months to years)
  • Higher costs due to attorney fees and court expenses
  • Judge makes final decisions on unresolved issues

Mediated Divorce

Mediation involves a neutral third party who helps couples reach agreement:

  • Both spouses meet with a mediator (sometimes with attorneys present)
  • The mediator facilitates discussion but doesn't make decisions
  • Typically less expensive than traditional litigation
  • Couples maintain more control over outcomes
  • Can be used even in contested situations

Collaborative Divorce

Collaborative divorce is a team approach where both parties commit to reaching settlement without going to court:

  • Each spouse has their own attorney
  • All parties sign an agreement to negotiate in good faith
  • May involve financial specialists, child specialists, and coaches
  • If collaboration fails, both attorneys must withdraw and new attorneys are hired for litigation
  • Promotes cooperative problem-solving

Summary Divorce (Simplified Divorce)

Some states offer simplified divorce procedures for couples who meet certain criteria:

  • Short marriage (often under 5 years)
  • No children
  • Limited property and debts
  • Both parties agree to the divorce
  • Neither party is seeking spousal support

Summary divorce involves less paperwork, lower costs, and faster processing.

Default Divorce

A default divorce occurs when one spouse files for divorce and the other fails to respond within the required time period:

  • The non-responding spouse loses the right to contest
  • The court may grant the divorce based on the petitioner's requests
  • Common when spouses have lost contact or one refuses to participate

Choosing the Right Type

Consider these factors when deciding which divorce approach is right for you:

If you... Consider...
Agree on everything Uncontested / Summary Divorce
Have some disagreements but want to cooperate Mediation or Collaborative Divorce
Cannot communicate with your spouse Contested Divorce with Attorney
Need to prove wrongdoing (affairs, abuse) Fault-Based Divorce
Want to minimize conflict for children Mediation or Collaborative Divorce